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Aug. 31

ultimatelypointless:

some homophobic things i’d hope you don’t say

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robocracker:

we acknowledge that gay men have privilege over the rest of the lgbt community by virtue of their being men; this does not deny the fact that gay men are also oppressed for being gay.

is it really any different to say that monosexuals have privilege over polysexuals by virtue of being monosexual, whilst at the same time not denying that they, too, are oppressed for their sexuality?

yes.

this is a false comparison. men are never oppressed on the basis of their gender; however, gay people are always oppressed on the basis of their sexuality. i do not understand how one can be privilege and oppressed on the same axis?

also, not all monosexuals are oppressed for their sexuality you know…and here i am thinking of, you know, straight people. the ones doing the most harm to polysexual people. 


Aug. 24

i need to work on reading comprehension


guitboxer007:

gayalienautopsy:

straightallies:

live-freewill-or-die:

we should make “no mono” a thing
like
“i’m dating a genderqueer person #nomono”
“that boy is hella fine #nomono”
“girls’ butts are nice #nomono”

haha homophobia is so funny

Finally queers can be homophobic too

Honestly thought this was a stand against mononucleosis for a second. Like, “Hell yeah! Get vaccinated, no mono!”


plansfornigel:

plansfornigel:

Luis Morales,now Synthia China Blast, is the person Laverne Cox wants put in a woman’s prison

"She claims that before she met Eddie, she’d had sex with some of the most notorious rapists and killers in the New York prison system. “It seems that my only attractions are to society’s sickest and most twisted lowlifes,” she wrote in a letter to me. “I’m actually hoping to be incarcerated with the Son of Sam so I can sleep with him while awaiting my sex-change outcome in the courts.” And that fetish suits Eddie just fine: “I liked that she was excited by my murders. It was a little plus for us. She used to put the zodiac sign all over her cell as a tribute to me. I’d see one and say, ‘Is that a new one?’ And she’d say yes. It flattered me.”
http://nymag.com/nymetro/news/crimelaw/features/n_10181/index1.html
Zodiac ‘wife’ curses fate Weird killer couple separated in prison BY JOHN MARZULLI NEW YORK DAILY NEWS Monday, May 31, 2004,
The Zodiac Killer’s life behind bars has taken another bizarre twist after he reportedly “married” a preoperative transsexual murderer. Heriberto Seda, whose trail of terror left three people dead and five wounded in the 1990s, reportedly became smitten with Latin Kings member Synthia-China Blast when both were in protective custody at Attica. But Blast, who is suing to have a sex-change operation while incarcerated, recently was transferred to another lockup - ending the strange relationship of the killers-in-love. “This is the Zodiac’s wife speaking,” the 29-year-old Blast said in a typewritten letter to the Daily News this month. “Today I stand alone.
” In October 2002, Blast was sent to Attica, “where I met my friend, lover and infamous husband … the NYC Zodiac Serial Killer,” he wrote. Seda, 37, is serving a 235-year prison term for a violent 1990-93 spree when he threatened to kill one person for each of the 12 Zodiac signs. He is believed to have been copying California’s unsolved Zodiac killings. Blast - born Luis Morales - says guards at Attica allowed him to get a Scorpion tattoo on his face, signifying the month of his marriage to Seda last June. “I can honestly say that my sweet serial killer is a lady’s man now,” Blast wrote. “Only if I was a real woman I could bring about little future serial killers to terrorize NYC like my husband did. How [New Yorkers] would of loathed the Zodiac Children.
http://www.nydailynews.com/archives/news/zodiac-wife-curses-fate-weird-killer-couple-separated-prison-article-1.645709
A Bronx mother yesterday berated two members of the Latin Kings gang for smirking while standing trial for torturing and killing her 13-year-old daughter. Yvonne Hill then nodded approvingly when the men were sentenced to life in prison for murdering Ebony Williams. “Ever since the trial was going on, all I see is Luis Morales grinning and Carlos Franco, too,” Hill said. “You ain’t smiling today. I hope you both rot in hell.
” Morales, 22, and Franco, 24, appeared unmoved as Bronx Supreme Court Justice Martin Marcus sentenced them to 25 years to life for the 1993slaying. Bronx Prosecutor William Hrabsky said the two held the girl captive in a Hunts Point apartment, Morales raping her and repeatedly slashing her body. Franco was charged with killing the girl after breaking her neck. “The suffering that this poor child went through is beyond belief and puts this crime in the category of monstrous and barbarous,” Hrabsky said. Investigators said the men shoved Ebony’s body into a box and dumped it on the Sheridan Expressway at E. 165th St., where it was set on fire. They later bragged about the crime to friends, many of whom testified against them. In court, a defiant Morales wore a black-and-gold Latin Kings necklace and insisted that other gang members, not he and Franco, killed Ebony. “I will be back down and I will be vindicated,” he said. “I didn’t kill her. I didn’t do it. But whatever happens here today, I’ll take it like a man.
” The judge denied last-minute requests both men wrote seeking to overturn their convictions on technicalities. He then chastised them for their cavalier attitudes throughout the trial. “Their demeanor in this courtroom … speaks volumes,” he said.
http://www.nydailynews.com/archives/news/2-kings-life-rape-slay-girl-13-article-1.737954
At the age of 13, Synthia says, she sold crack in her South Bronx neighborhood, and at 16 she was accused of starting a squatter-house fire that killed six people. Two years after Synthia’s arrest for arson, she was acquitted of all the charges when a witness recanted. http://nymag.com/nymetro/news/crimelaw/features/n_10181/index2.html
who knows what this person is capable of. capable of finding serial rapists and murderers sexually arousing. Do they deserve celebrity attention and should they have cosmetic surgery on their genitals because the desire it and should they be moved to a woman’s prison where women will not be given the right to not be housed with males? I don’t think so. Women are housed in men’s prisons in the US and have been since the 80’s. If women can be housed in men’s prisons in separate wards, why not just house the transwomen prisoners together? Put the transwomen and the gay men together. No one is arguing for FTMs to be put in men’s prison, I don’t see why people are arguing for MTFs to be put with women. At any rate, Cox should not be supporting this man, nor should Cox have supported Robert “Michelle” Koselik a man who beheaded his wife and sued for SRS in prison. Nope, I don’t think you get to kill women and then assume that gender, that’s fucked up, don’t care what your expensive gender studies told you, that is wrong.
And another thing, the Sylvia Rivera Law Project that Cox was involved with is also supporting a convicted pedophile and they let him blog and encourage people to write him but do not say he’s in federal prison for possessing films that show prepubescent children being raped. SRLP knows this about him, they have to, they are a legal organization that helps prisoners, so why the fuck are they advocating for a pedophile to be able to legally change gender and be put in a woman’s prison, that just is not right that is completely wrong. And that link has his charges with screen caps.

plansfornigel:

plansfornigel:

Luis Morales,now Synthia China Blast, is the person Laverne Cox wants put in a woman’s prison

"She claims that before she met Eddie, she’d had sex with some of the most notorious rapists and killers in the New York prison system. “It seems that my only attractions are to society’s sickest and most twisted lowlifes,” she wrote in a letter to me. “I’m actually hoping to be incarcerated with the Son of Sam so I can sleep with him while awaiting my sex-change outcome in the courts.” And that fetish suits Eddie just fine: “I liked that she was excited by my murders. It was a little plus for us. She used to put the zodiac sign all over her cell as a tribute to me. I’d see one and say, ‘Is that a new one?’ And she’d say yes. It flattered me.”

http://nymag.com/nymetro/news/crimelaw/features/n_10181/index1.html

Zodiac ‘wife’ curses fate Weird killer couple separated in prison BY JOHN MARZULLI NEW YORK DAILY NEWS Monday, May 31, 2004,

The Zodiac Killer’s life behind bars has taken another bizarre twist after he reportedly “married” a preoperative transsexual murderer. Heriberto Seda, whose trail of terror left three people dead and five wounded in the 1990s, reportedly became smitten with Latin Kings member Synthia-China Blast when both were in protective custody at Attica. But Blast, who is suing to have a sex-change operation while incarcerated, recently was transferred to another lockup - ending the strange relationship of the killers-in-love. “This is the Zodiac’s wife speaking,” the 29-year-old Blast said in a typewritten letter to the Daily News this month. “Today I stand alone.

” In October 2002, Blast was sent to Attica, “where I met my friend, lover and infamous husband … the NYC Zodiac Serial Killer,” he wrote. Seda, 37, is serving a 235-year prison term for a violent 1990-93 spree when he threatened to kill one person for each of the 12 Zodiac signs. He is believed to have been copying California’s unsolved Zodiac killings. Blast - born Luis Morales - says guards at Attica allowed him to get a Scorpion tattoo on his face, signifying the month of his marriage to Seda last June. “I can honestly say that my sweet serial killer is a lady’s man now,” Blast wrote. “Only if I was a real woman I could bring about little future serial killers to terrorize NYC like my husband did. How [New Yorkers] would of loathed the Zodiac Children.

http://www.nydailynews.com/archives/news/zodiac-wife-curses-fate-weird-killer-couple-separated-prison-article-1.645709

A Bronx mother yesterday berated two members of the Latin Kings gang for smirking while standing trial for torturing and killing her 13-year-old daughter. Yvonne Hill then nodded approvingly when the men were sentenced to life in prison for murdering Ebony Williams. “Ever since the trial was going on, all I see is Luis Morales grinning and Carlos Franco, too,” Hill said. “You ain’t smiling today. I hope you both rot in hell.

” Morales, 22, and Franco, 24, appeared unmoved as Bronx Supreme Court Justice Martin Marcus sentenced them to 25 years to life for the 1993slaying. Bronx Prosecutor William Hrabsky said the two held the girl captive in a Hunts Point apartment, Morales raping her and repeatedly slashing her body. Franco was charged with killing the girl after breaking her neck. “The suffering that this poor child went through is beyond belief and puts this crime in the category of monstrous and barbarous,” Hrabsky said. Investigators said the men shoved Ebony’s body into a box and dumped it on the Sheridan Expressway at E. 165th St., where it was set on fire. They later bragged about the crime to friends, many of whom testified against them. In court, a defiant Morales wore a black-and-gold Latin Kings necklace and insisted that other gang members, not he and Franco, killed Ebony. “I will be back down and I will be vindicated,” he said. “I didn’t kill her. I didn’t do it. But whatever happens here today, I’ll take it like a man.

” The judge denied last-minute requests both men wrote seeking to overturn their convictions on technicalities. He then chastised them for their cavalier attitudes throughout the trial. “Their demeanor in this courtroom … speaks volumes,” he said.

http://www.nydailynews.com/archives/news/2-kings-life-rape-slay-girl-13-article-1.737954

At the age of 13, Synthia says, she sold crack in her South Bronx neighborhood, and at 16 she was accused of starting a squatter-house fire that killed six people. Two years after Synthia’s arrest for arson, she was acquitted of all the charges when a witness recanted. http://nymag.com/nymetro/news/crimelaw/features/n_10181/index2.html

who knows what this person is capable of. capable of finding serial rapists and murderers sexually arousing. Do they deserve celebrity attention and should they have cosmetic surgery on their genitals because the desire it and should they be moved to a woman’s prison where women will not be given the right to not be housed with males? I don’t think so. Women are housed in men’s prisons in the US and have been since the 80’s. If women can be housed in men’s prisons in separate wards, why not just house the transwomen prisoners together? Put the transwomen and the gay men together. No one is arguing for FTMs to be put in men’s prison, I don’t see why people are arguing for MTFs to be put with women. At any rate, Cox should not be supporting this man, nor should Cox have supported Robert “Michelle” Koselik a man who beheaded his wife and sued for SRS in prison. Nope, I don’t think you get to kill women and then assume that gender, that’s fucked up, don’t care what your expensive gender studies told you, that is wrong.

And another thing, the Sylvia Rivera Law Project that Cox was involved with is also supporting a convicted pedophile and they let him blog and encourage people to write him but do not say he’s in federal prison for possessing films that show prepubescent children being raped. SRLP knows this about him, they have to, they are a legal organization that helps prisoners, so why the fuck are they advocating for a pedophile to be able to legally change gender and be put in a woman’s prison, that just is not right that is completely wrong. And that link has his charges with screen caps.

(via appropriately-inappropriate)


Aug. 23

dear binary people who are also binary attracted bisexuals,

anamanaguky:

please don’t call yourself “half straight”

you’re not straight, you’re bisexual

you shouldn’t be telling other people how to identify 


aliensglitter:

someday im going to make a “things queer people do to bisexual people that are really fuckin shitty” post and it’s going to be glorious and gay guys + lesbians are going 2 be mad but im not going to care. 

so bisexual people aren’t queer?

not trying to be rude here, just trying to understand your post 


Anonym sagte: What's really fucked about this Sinthia China Blast thing is that trans women ARE more often targeted and criminalized, surely there are TWOC prisoners who aren't rapists. Surely there are TWOC prisoners in for drugs, or fraud, or something, anything that isn't raping and murdering a child. Surely there are non-violent trans women with no violent history who could be safely transferred to womens' prisons? Right? Any at all? There's got to be, but they don't get even a glance from activists.

appropriately-inappropriate:

Yeah! Like, advocate for NON-violent criminals. What, they can’t find one trans woman incarcerated for petty theft? Or for sex-work related charges? They’re always talking about how trans women are disproportionately affected by policing, why not advocate for one of them? Hell, I’d support that.

But no. All the trans people who get famous for wanting big sex changes and transferring prisons are narcissistic sociopaths who have hurt women or girls.

That’s who they choose to defend? Males who hurt women? Can someone tell me when I woke up in a Stieg Larsson novel?!


appropriately-inappropriate:

beautifulgorgeousmary:

appropriately-inappropriate:

beautifulgorgeousmary:

appropriately-inappropriate:

beautifulgorgeousmary:

appropriately-inappropriate:

appropriately-inappropriate:

timeladyaerynjenkins:

equaleighty:

gaywrites:

In which Laverne Cox reads aloud a letter from Synthia China Blast, a trans woman who has been in prison for 21 years. She’s joining forces with the Sylvia Rivera Law Project on a petition to achieve safer housing conditions for trans people in New York prisons. Wow. (via BuzzFeed

This male that Laverne is trying to help ruthlessly raped and abused a 13 year old girl named Ebony Nicole Williams and deserves literally 0 sympathy from anyone…I don’t know what Laverne is doing. But of all transgender causes she could have used her fame to help promote awareness to, she chose this one….

http://gendertrender.wordpress.com/2014/08/22/laverne-cox-launches-media-campaign-in-support-of-transwoman-synthia-china-blast-convicted-for-the-rape-murder-and-abuse-of-the-corpse-of-thirteen-year-old-ebony-nicole-williams/

Are. You. Fucking. Kidding. Me?

Quotes by and about Synthia:

She claims that before she met Eddie, she’d had sex with some of the most notorious rapists and killers in the New York prison system. “It seems that my only attractions are to society’s sickest and most twisted lowlifes”.

And that fetish suits Eddie just fine: “I liked that she was excited by my murders”.

And this gem:

"I can honestly say that my sweet serial killer is a lady’s man now," Blast wrote. “Only if I was a real woman I could bring about little future serial killers to terrorize NYC like my husband did. How [New Yorkers] would of loathed the Zodiac Children.”

Synthia has a textbook understanding of “girlhood/femininity”, too:

“I have always been a girl,” says Synthia, who legally changed her name when she got to Attica. “I was always trying on makeup, and my sister would sneak me cotton panties.”

(…)

Soon after they got “married,” Synthia told him, “Go take a shower and come back here.” Eddie did as instructed. Then she says she gave him oral sex through the cell bars. (…) After that, they repeated this scenario about twice a week—always with Eddie receiving and Synthia giving. That was how they both wanted it.

“I’m not gay,” Eddie points out. “I focus on her feminine exterior. I’m not interested in what’s down there, not until after the operation. I think of her as a woman.”

(…)

Synthia continued to take her role as wife very seriously. Every day, she cooked for Eddie using a hot pot he’d given her. And as the husband, Eddie bought her prison-approved supplies with the savings from his $21-a-month porter job.

As usual I’m not surprised, just disappointed. Did Laverne do her research? 

The quotes are repugnant. The person in question is disgusting and obviously a re-offence risk.

"I liked that she was excited by my murders".

and of course Laverne Cox is going to defend this fucker. Janet Mock can defend someone who nearly decapitates his wife, so she’s gotta up the ante to stay relevant.

Remember when the trans community used to defend people worth defending?

And then it was Bradley Manning, who beat a woman to pulp.

Then it was Paul Witherspoon, who raped two little girls but it’s okay, he hasn’t stuck his dick in a prepubescent kid in like, aaaages.

Then it was Kosilek, but that’s okay cause maybe his wife said mean things to him about him wearing her panties.

Now it’s this fucker, who should just have been put down.

Jesus Christ. What the hell happened, you guys?!

"A passenger on a No. 2 train, running on elevated tracks nearby, saw the flames and called the police. Detectives found the body badly burned. There were no clothes, jewelry or other means of identification. "All I saw was that her hair had been worn in corn rows," Sergeant Garvey recalled.

The Medical Examiner was unable to determine a precise cause of death and listed it only as “homicidal violence.” For days, the girl was known to detectives only as a face in a sketch drawn from the informant’s description — a frail girl about 4 feet 2 inches tall, with narrow-set eyes, broad cheekbones and a strong chin.”


I guess we only care about Black bodies when they look like Laverne’s, and not when they belong to a tiny little girl who ran away and died horribly, so horribly that the only way they could identify her was by dental x-rays.

nytimes dot com/1993/09/03/nyregion/slain-girl-is-identified-as-runaway-from-harlem.html

But then again, males of all sorts have always used the bodies of women to get ahead. I don’t know why I expected Cox to do anything BUT capitalize on the rape of a little girl to stay relevant.

Bastard.

interesting.

Interesting?

A mainstream trans actor and activist supporting a child rapist/murderer is “interesting”?

sister— yes. i find the case of the inmate’s love affair to be an interesting story (my blog is a true crime blog). i am not a laverne cox fan and could give two fucks what she does (somewhat- it has political import). only i can judge my emotional resources to comment extensively in a political thread at any given time, though i support you in speaking out against violence against children. additionally, my followers are mixed trans and trans-critical radfem, so i am choosing not to entangle myself in this thread, which at any second will turn transcritical (which is okay, but i’m reblogging this as a crime post, not a post for me to discuss transsexualism in, and because of my range of followers it’s important for me to be clear and complete in my arguments when i make them so I have to be in a place to). in the video is down btw

.

The video has been saved externally, so that’s fine.

Well, okay, but still. I understand where you’re coming from, but is staying silent really the appropriate action here? Silence helps nobody but the oppressor, and well, in this case, Laverne and Co fucked up badly.

Why not talk about that openly? Or about how the trans community on here has closed ranks and is now trying to defend Luis Morales by saying that well, maybe he didn’t rape and kill her, just kinda, yanno, desecrated her corpse a little bit.

Well, it’s your blog, so I won’t tell you how to run it, but I will ask: wouldn’t Ebony Williams have been our sister to?

Refusing to speak up for her is not something I’m prepared to do to keep the peace.

Yes, Ebony Williams is also our sister and the disposability of black female bodies is a crucial issue. I condemn the murder and disrespect of Ebony Williams.

And in that regard, we can completely agree.


Anonym sagte: they made the video private of course.

appropriately-inappropriate:

socialistequality:

appropriately-inappropriate:

shamelesslyunladylike:

hostile017:

appropriately-inappropriate:

tvits:

plansfornigel:

appropriately-inappropriate:

That’s fine. We’ve got the evidence it existed, and I’ve got a whole weekend of nothing to do but reblog that post til every fucking person on this website knows that Laverne Cox advocates for the rights of child raping murderers.

here it is, download it. Laverne Cox reads a personal introduction from an incarcerated member of SRLP.mp4

Here’s an archived copy of the Buzzfeed article that has the transcript of the video with stills from the video.

Here’s the petition for Netflix to remove Cox remove from the cast of OITNB

wait what?? someone explain this to me please

Laverne Cox has decided to advocate for the rights of a trans inmate named Sinthia China Bank.

Which would be fine, except Bank, as Luis Morales, raped a thirteen year old little girl, mutilated her, murdered her, stomped on her corpse to force her into a box, which he subsequently burned so badly that Ebony Nicole Williams was identified by her dental records.

But that’s okay, because the child rapist/murderer has “hopes and dreams” and Cox thinks they’re worth supporting.

So, Laverne Cox is morally bankrupt.

So apparently no one fucking read the link before reblogging, because on tumblr dot com we don’t like to make sure the TERFS aren’t making shit up before hating on a trans woman. 

I didn’t download the video, because my computer is just fine without some TERF’s virus, but the buzzfeed link basically states that Laverne used a letter from Bank to advocate for transgender rights in prison. Poor PR move? Probably. But much as being mad at someone does not justify intentionally misgendering them, committing a disgusting, heinous, unforgiveable act does not justify being treated in a horrific matter on the basis of your gender.  Like we’re talking about assault (possibly prison rape) here. 

She’s not saying to bake her a fucking cake every day, or even necessarily treat her well. Just not to discriminate against her on the basis of her gender. They put her in a fucking men’s prison. Come on. Use rational thought, I know you’re capable of it. This is a huge display of transmisogyny and you should all be ashamed.

Yes, let’s put a known rapist and murderer who has an obsession with the Zodiac killes in a woman’s prison. Because fuck the female prisoners, right? Let’s just live some deranged rapist who brutally raped and murdered a little girl, stuffed her body in a box, set it on fire and then proceeded to mock her grieving mother on his trial next to women who, in their majority, were incarcerated by minor crimes like holding a bit of pot, or simply because of racial profiling.

Because ~*IdEnTiTy*~ is more important than the safety of women prisoners. Because ~*IdEnTiTy*~ is more important than justice for Ebony Nicolle Williams and her family.

You genderists go around feeling all self-righetous and shrieking “TERF!” but you’ll side with a pedophile killer without a moment of hesitation. Hypocrites.

I guess we know that the life of a little black girl is worth less to these cretins than the feelings of the monster who killed her.

I guess the only black girls these creeps are Nicki and Bey.

Now, this girl is a total asshole, but if they her in a maximum security prison, everyone would be fine. Terrible person or not, they deserve to be in the prison of their gender identity. It’s fucking TERFs using the death, mutilation and brutal raping of a little black girl to push forward their own agenda, that’s what is fucking disgusting! This is such bullshit, because this is the kind of thing that makes all Trans* women look bad, like evil, child molesting, monsters. Just more TERF bullshit, fuck them, fuck every single one of them!

Excuse me? If it weren’t for “TERFs”, none of you creeps would even know what this fucker had done.

What’s her name? What’s that little girl’s name. How old was she? Was she tall? Skinny? Plump? How did they know it was a little girl and not a pile of trash?

Do you know any of that? Do you know what this fucker did at the trial?

Or are you just going to try and rip us for bringing her up, on the 21st anniversary of her murder?

Luis Morales, a trans woman, raped her with his dick, sliced her to shreds, slit her throat, stomped on her corpse and set it aflame, and then had the nerve to taunt the grieving mother.

Ebony Nicole Williams (that’s her name, fucker, not “little girl”, and she was 13, and a run away and 4’2 and maybe 100lbs and she had hopes and dreams too) didn’t deserve to die so this trans woman could get his dick wet.

This creep doesn’t deserve privileges, like being hosted around other females he could hurt. He has food, water, and a pot to piss in.

That’s three more rights than I would have given him.

He has advocates (Silvia Riviera Law Project has refused to stop advocating on his behalf), and he has security and he’s even got apologists to defend him.

That’s three more privileges he never offered to Ebony. So don’t you dare say that the TERFs are politicizing this, when all we’re doing is making sure spineless apologists like you don’t brush her under the rug. She’s worth more than that.

But I gotta ask: weren’t you fuckers all OVER that kill yr rapist meme? Does that change when the rapist says they’re a lady inside?


gaypocalypse:

it’s not true that bi women are “by definition” “open to” sex with men

we are—with the exception of some women who define “bisexual” differently—attracted to men. we are then capable of choosing whether we are open to having sex with them or not, because we are people with free will.

yes, those of us who are specifically not open to sex with men are probably a pretty small minority. but we exist, and if you really can’t see any difference between being attracted to someone and being open to actually sleeping with them, that’s honestly pretty creepy.


Aug. 19
he-who-rides-the-sea-of-sand:

mogai-watch:

goodnight-stellaluna:

mogai-watch:

"Look at the archives" No. Fuck that.  Also, fuck the implication that being cis is not as much of an “adventure” (???) as being ~*~gloomgendered~*~ or ~*~genderdead~*~ or whatever the fuck else. My gender identity is just as valid as that of trans/NB/GF/etc individuals, and vastly more valid than that of some (nekogender, anyone?).

I really don’t think that is what they are saying????, Im pretty sure this is just encouragement to experiment with gender, and there is nothing wrong with that. It’s not saying you have to change, it’s just saying to give it a try in case you find something that suits you better. Like say you only have vanilla ice cream, and someone tells you to try chocolate and you refuse and refuse, but then you finally try chocolate and it’s the best thing that you’ve ever tried. ( probably not the best analogy but im not great at that )Also your gender is not more or less valid than anyone elses’, that was rude.

Look. If somebody tells me that they’re genderdead (ie that gender doesn’t matter to them because they are literally dead), then yes, my gender identity is more valid than theirs because genderdead is not a gender. Also, in this particular case, they’re obviously not dead because they are standing there talking to me, something that is pretty much antithetical to the state of being not alive. Thus, we can deduce from this that they are not actually genderdead, and that nobody capable of fulfilling the prescribed requirements of legitimate genderdead-ness can actually claim this as their gender because they’re too busy rotting away in their graves and
being dead.

I’ve seen a buttload of posts that claim that gender, sexual orientation, etc. is not the choice of that person, and that they couldn’t change even if they wanted to. Why is that not applicable to a cisgendered person? I was born a male, and quite frankly, I intend to remain as such.

he-who-rides-the-sea-of-sand:

mogai-watch:

goodnight-stellaluna:

mogai-watch:

"Look at the archives"
No. Fuck that.
Also, fuck the implication that being cis is not as much of an “adventure” (???) as being ~*~gloomgendered~*~ or ~*~genderdead~*~ or whatever the fuck else. My gender identity is just as valid as that of trans/NB/GF/etc individuals, and vastly more valid than that of some (nekogender, anyone?).

I really don’t think that is what they are saying????, Im pretty sure this is just encouragement to experiment with gender, and there is nothing wrong with that. It’s not saying you have to change, it’s just saying to give it a try in case you find something that suits you better.
Like say you only have vanilla ice cream, and someone tells you to try chocolate and you refuse and refuse, but then you finally try chocolate and it’s the best thing that you’ve ever tried. ( probably not the best analogy but im not great at that )
Also your gender is not more or less valid than anyone elses’, that was rude.

Look. If somebody tells me that they’re genderdead (ie that gender doesn’t matter to them because they are literally dead), then yes, my gender identity is more valid than theirs because genderdead is not a gender. Also, in this particular case, they’re obviously not dead because they are standing there talking to me, something that is pretty much antithetical to the state of being not alive. Thus, we can deduce from this that they are not actually genderdead, and that nobody capable of fulfilling the prescribed requirements of legitimate genderdead-ness can actually claim this as their gender because they’re too busy rotting away in their graves and
being dead.

I’ve seen a buttload of posts that claim that gender, sexual orientation, etc. is not the choice of that person, and that they couldn’t change even if they wanted to. Why is that not applicable to a cisgendered person? I was born a male, and quite frankly, I intend to remain as such.

(via mogai-watch)


Aug. 18
genderoftheday:

Today’s Gender of the day is: An 8th-degree approximation of the cosine function in the complex plane.

genderoftheday:

Today’s Gender of the day is: An 8th-degree approximation of the cosine function in the complex plane.

(via vvrackspurt)


cellulitisplayerhater:

girl who has sex w guy but didn’t really like it gets the reaction of like “oh, virginity is supposed to hurt/not be that good/you weren’t supposed to come/etc, just keep trying” you are legitimately supposed to keep trying to push yourself until you like it and get accustomed to it and it becomes an acquired taste 

but like if you have gay sex for the first time and didn’t like it it’s just like “welp, that’s it, guess you tried it and it’s not for you”

(via spinsterprivilege)


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