i need to work on reading comprehension
the only possible answer is liberation
we should make “no mono” a thing
“i’m dating a genderqueer person #nomono”
“that boy is hella fine #nomono”
“girls’ butts are nice #nomono”
haha homophobia is so funny
Finally queers can be homophobic too
Honestly thought this was a stand against mononucleosis for a second. Like, “Hell yeah! Get vaccinated, no mono!”
dear binary people who are also binary attracted bisexuals,
please don’t call yourself “half straight”
you’re not straight, you’re bisexual
you shouldn’t be telling other people how to identify
someday im going to make a “things queer people do to bisexual people that are really fuckin shitty” post and it’s going to be glorious and gay guys + lesbians are going 2 be mad but im not going to care.
so bisexual people aren’t queer?
not trying to be rude here, just trying to understand your post
Anonym sagte: What's really fucked about this Sinthia China Blast thing is that trans women ARE more often targeted and criminalized, surely there are TWOC prisoners who aren't rapists. Surely there are TWOC prisoners in for drugs, or fraud, or something, anything that isn't raping and murdering a child. Surely there are non-violent trans women with no violent history who could be safely transferred to womens' prisons? Right? Any at all? There's got to be, but they don't get even a glance from activists.
Yeah! Like, advocate for NON-violent criminals. What, they can’t find one trans woman incarcerated for petty theft? Or for sex-work related charges? They’re always talking about how trans women are disproportionately affected by policing, why not advocate for one of them? Hell, I’d support that.
But no. All the trans people who get famous for wanting big sex changes and transferring prisons are narcissistic sociopaths who have hurt women or girls.
That’s who they choose to defend? Males who hurt women? Can someone tell me when I woke up in a Stieg Larsson novel?!
Anonym sagte: they made the video private of course.
That’s fine. We’ve got the evidence it existed, and I’ve got a whole weekend of nothing to do but reblog that post til every fucking person on this website knows that Laverne Cox advocates for the rights of child raping murderers.
here it is, download it. Laverne Cox reads a personal introduction from an incarcerated member of SRLP.mp4
Here’s the petition for Netflix to remove Cox remove from the cast of OITNB
wait what?? someone explain this to me please
Laverne Cox has decided to advocate for the rights of a trans inmate named Sinthia China Bank.
Which would be fine, except Bank, as Luis Morales, raped a thirteen year old little girl, mutilated her, murdered her, stomped on her corpse to force her into a box, which he subsequently burned so badly that Ebony Nicole Williams was identified by her dental records.
But that’s okay, because the child rapist/murderer has “hopes and dreams” and Cox thinks they’re worth supporting.
So, Laverne Cox is morally bankrupt.
So apparently no one fucking read the link before reblogging, because on tumblr dot com we don’t like to make sure the TERFS aren’t making shit up before hating on a trans woman.
I didn’t download the video, because my computer is just fine without some TERF’s virus, but the buzzfeed link basically states that Laverne used a letter from Bank to advocate for transgender rights in prison. Poor PR move? Probably. But much as being mad at someone does not justify intentionally misgendering them, committing a disgusting, heinous, unforgiveable act does not justify being treated in a horrific matter on the basis of your gender. Like we’re talking about assault (possibly prison rape) here.
She’s not saying to bake her a fucking cake every day, or even necessarily treat her well. Just not to discriminate against her on the basis of her gender. They put her in a fucking men’s prison. Come on. Use rational thought, I know you’re capable of it. This is a huge display of transmisogyny and you should all be ashamed.
Yes, let’s put a known rapist and murderer who has an obsession with the Zodiac killes in a woman’s prison. Because fuck the female prisoners, right? Let’s just live some deranged rapist who brutally raped and murdered a little girl, stuffed her body in a box, set it on fire and then proceeded to mock her grieving mother on his trial next to women who, in their majority, were incarcerated by minor crimes like holding a bit of pot, or simply because of racial profiling.
Because ~*IdEnTiTy*~ is more important than the safety of women prisoners. Because ~*IdEnTiTy*~ is more important than justice for Ebony Nicolle Williams and her family.
You genderists go around feeling all self-righetous and shrieking “TERF!” but you’ll side with a pedophile killer without a moment of hesitation. Hypocrites.
I guess we know that the life of a little black girl is worth less to these cretins than the feelings of the monster who killed her.
I guess the only black girls these creeps are Nicki and Bey.
Now, this girl is a total asshole, but if they her in a maximum security prison, everyone would be fine. Terrible person or not, they deserve to be in the prison of their gender identity. It’s fucking TERFs using the death, mutilation and brutal raping of a little black girl to push forward their own agenda, that’s what is fucking disgusting! This is such bullshit, because this is the kind of thing that makes all Trans* women look bad, like evil, child molesting, monsters. Just more TERF bullshit, fuck them, fuck every single one of them!
Excuse me? If it weren’t for “TERFs”, none of you creeps would even know what this fucker had done.
What’s her name? What’s that little girl’s name. How old was she? Was she tall? Skinny? Plump? How did they know it was a little girl and not a pile of trash?
Do you know any of that? Do you know what this fucker did at the trial?
Or are you just going to try and rip us for bringing her up, on the 21st anniversary of her murder?
Luis Morales, a trans woman, raped her with his dick, sliced her to shreds, slit her throat, stomped on her corpse and set it aflame, and then had the nerve to taunt the grieving mother.
Ebony Nicole Williams (that’s her name, fucker, not “little girl”, and she was 13, and a run away and 4’2 and maybe 100lbs and she had hopes and dreams too) didn’t deserve to die so this trans woman could get his dick wet.
This creep doesn’t deserve privileges, like being hosted around other females he could hurt. He has food, water, and a pot to piss in.
That’s three more rights than I would have given him.
He has advocates (Silvia Riviera Law Project has refused to stop advocating on his behalf), and he has security and he’s even got apologists to defend him.
That’s three more privileges he never offered to Ebony. So don’t you dare say that the TERFs are politicizing this, when all we’re doing is making sure spineless apologists like you don’t brush her under the rug. She’s worth more than that.
But I gotta ask: weren’t you fuckers all OVER that kill yr rapist meme? Does that change when the rapist says they’re a lady inside?
it’s not true that bi women are “by definition” “open to” sex with men
we are—with the exception of some women who define “bisexual” differently—attracted to men. we are then capable of choosing whether we are open to having sex with them or not, because we are people with free will.
yes, those of us who are specifically not open to sex with men are probably a pretty small minority. but we exist, and if you really can’t see any difference between being attracted to someone and being open to actually sleeping with them, that’s honestly pretty creepy.
girl who has sex w guy but didn’t really like it gets the reaction of like “oh, virginity is supposed to hurt/not be that good/you weren’t supposed to come/etc, just keep trying” you are legitimately supposed to keep trying to push yourself until you like it and get accustomed to it and it becomes an acquired taste
but like if you have gay sex for the first time and didn’t like it it’s just like “welp, that’s it, guess you tried it and it’s not for you”
Never mind the one bisexual character just decided he’s gay
I mean there’s nothing wrong with that happening in real life but like dude bisexuals exist where the fuck are they even in queer movies
They just disappear and it makes me so sad
wow, really? that sucks. I read the book (I wasn’t even aware there was a movie until now) and Min is very assertive and sure about her bisexuality (and like when they discuss starting a gay-straight alliance she’s like gay-straight-bisexual alliance) and the fact that the movie is…not as good on that front is really saddening
Infuriated. The Older Gay Community, Misogyny, and Bi Erasure.
Most of the posts I put on this blog are encouraging because that’s how I prefer to deal with bisexual erasure, violence, etc. It’s better to focus on the ways to solve issues in a positive manner than dwelling on the negative. But sometimes you have experiences that just leave you seething.
I attended a dinner tonight that was business oriented for a new colleague’s birthday. All those in attendance were self-identified gay men, excluding myself. Five minutes into the dinner, the conversation turns into a discussion of how bisexuality doesn’t exist and that a mutual friend, who was not in attendance, was dating a girl. Comments turned into, “It’s almost sad” because he’s “obviously gay and it’s not going to work but we’ll sit and watch. Poor thing must be so confused. But hey…he’ll figure it out.”
The issue at hand was that all of the (mostly older) gay men in attendance had only known this mutual acquaintance to date other men. However, over the summer he had starting dating another friend who happened to be a woman and he was very excited to start this new relationship.
To question a colleague’s sexuality, especially when they’re not in attendance, is just unacceptable. As this discussion progressed, the same old tired comments about bisexuality came out. “The only bi men I know say that they’re bi but they all lean one way or the other” or “Well…honey….he should just admit it. He’s gay. It’ll be easier.”
My own sexuality was not up for discussion here directly, but it was the same. fucking. erasure. that happens daily for bisexual men. I was so mad that I turned visibly red.
At this point I said something to those at the dinner about how I have a dear, unnamed friend, who is married and loves, LOVES sleeping with his wife but also is allowed to sleep with men and enjoys both thoroughly. This comment got brushed off with someone saying “Oh that’s like my friend _____. He’s gay but he’s married to a woman so they have an open marriage where they both sleep with men on the side,” which completely missed my point and basically suggested my friend had a sham marriage.
How can people in the gay community, especially older members of the gay community, be so ignorant, and frankly asshole-ish about sexualities other than gay or lesbian? When this cohort of gay men were younger being gay was still listed in the DSM-II of Mental Illnesses. You’d think that a group who experienced Stonewall and the first wave of the gay rights movement firsthand would be more open.
And the way that they talked about women. And it’s not just this particular group. We often hear about how straight men are misogynistic. But little discussion, until the past couple years, has occurred talking about how it’s just as bad if not worse among the older gay male cohort. The shit I have heard some gay men (and often older gay men) talk about how “Women are just…ew. Like…don’t they smell and…just ew” and joke after joke suggesting men are obviously superior to women because we have cocks and pronounced pecs and muscle-y thighs, etc. How the fuck do you think you’re around? Those vaginas you find so revolting were somehow involved in you being in existence. And those “floppy boobs” are evolutionarily designed. It’s because of them that you could have the proper nutrition to have the cognitive ability to even have this conversation.
This is not to say you have to like women. You can even be repulsed by female genitalia. But to speak and talk about women as if they’re a different species and portray their own sexual beings as something hideous that should be hidden is simply…misogynistic and a throwback to the 1950s.
But I think the part that angered me the most was that a personal friend of mine was at the table and said nothing. This friend didn’t exactly agree with the comments being made but he also didn’t say anything. He didn’t defend the fact that the man he himself is in love with (also not in attendance) is bisexual. Nor did he do anything to account that his own friend sitting next to him, me, is bisexual and obviously very uncomfortable with the way the discussion was headed. Granted, in a setting such as this it would have put him at odds with his superiors but yet I was in the same position as he was hierarchically-speaking and decided to speak up for myself.
I do not mean this rant to blanket the entire older gay community. Some of my closest allies are gay men that are in the very same age bracket as these men and they have been some of the most supportive and amazing people I have ever met. But it still remains that a large portion continue to perpetuate stereotypes about bisexual men, trans* people, and women that are ridiculous. And in 2014. It is just unacceptable.
So please, followers. Send me some love AND responses. I want to hear your thoughts, even if you think my rant is totally base-less. I want to know what you think.
If you call a character who has expressed an interest in another gender “gay” I will fight you because bisexuality is a thing
gay people who have expressed interest in people of a different gender are a thing…have you heard of the concept of “”being in the closet”“?